When it comes to building a connection with a woman, many men fall into one of two traps. They either stay in the “friend zone” by talking about superficial topics, or they come on too strong with overly direct and aggressive advances. But what if there’s a third option? A way to create a deep, emotional connection that is also intensely sexual?
According to Marni, your personal “wing girl,” the key is to understand that a sexual connection is an emotional connection. It’s about tapping into her feelings of attraction and arousal, and the secret to doing that is not through brute force, but through subtlety and innuendo.
The Power of Innuendo: Let Her Imagination Do the Work
Unlike men, who are often aroused by direct and visual stimuli, women are aroused by their imagination. This is why romance novels are so popular; they build tension and desire through implication and teasing. To create a sexual emotional connection, you need to learn to speak this language of subtlety.
Instead of being explicit, use playful and suggestive language to introduce the idea of sexuality into the conversation. This can be as simple as:
- Accusing her of having a “dirty mind”: Phrases like, “You’re so hitting on me right now,” or “I knew you had a naughty side,” can create a fun and flirty dynamic where you’re both in on the joke.
- Asking suggestive questions: Questions like, “Have you ever been skinny-dipping?” or “What are your thoughts on public affection?” can open the door to a more intimate and playful conversation.
Reading the Signs: How to Know if She’s on the Same Page
The beauty of using innuendo is that it allows you to gauge her interest without putting her on the spot. If she responds positively to your playful teasing, it’s a clear sign that she’s comfortable with the direction the conversation is going and is open to escalating the connection.
On the other hand, if she seems uncomfortable or changes the subject, you can easily back off without making things awkward. This allows you to create a safe and respectful environment where she feels comfortable letting her guard down.
By mastering the art of innuendo, you can create a powerful emotional connection that is both deeply intimate and intensely sexual. You’ll move beyond the friend zone and become the kind of man that women not only connect with but also desire.
